Perm) The real reason why female students who graduated from an all-male school are shocked when they come to graduate school

It’s really shocking when a female student from a male student major comes to graduate school.
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Everyone seems to be misunderstanding the cost.
Because it’s an adventure, I avoid and reject female students:
When male students come to graduate school, it is really hard and exhausting.
No one can afford to do so:
The depression experienced by female students is also experienced by male students.
We are all thinking about dropping out and holding on with evil.
Because I am mentally and temporally stretched to the limit.
There is no time to take care of “others.”
Taking charge of the first experiment or first project
The professor is going to break it all down.
I’m so sad that I cry. But it’s different from undergrad.
no one provides relief

No, it means I can’t help you.
Everyone else is so broken too
Self-experiment, self-research, I need to revise.
I don’t have the energy to help others.
In another article, if only someone helped lower something heavy from a high place,
I’m sure it’s possible
Are you going to ask someone else to help you every time you set up an experiment?
Get help with heavy things
Get help with difficult things
While receiving help with difficult matters,
Get help with test results that don’t come out well
I also get help with things that are not resolved when I write a question.
I thought this was normal and was looking forward to it.
I often get shocked
If you participate in joint research, you may be able to get help.
However, if you want to be a co-first author rather than a second author or less,
We must contribute equally
You can’t expect to get help if you’re doing other research.
Because that side is on the verge of death too.
In a way, it’s a loneliness I’ve never experienced before in the undergraduate male studies department.
Research is lonely, and in that loneliness you have to find your own answers.
It is
Because we had some free time during undergraduate school.
If I buy you a meal, they say you know and help you with your homework.
When I was in graduate school, if I stayed up all night for a few nights, I felt like I was going to die.

But if you ask me to do this for you because I’m going to buy you some food,
It’s like people say they’d rather go home and sleep than eat with you.
You have to get used to this quickly and stop.
Even if you explode emotionally and scream and cry, you are completely a stranger.
If you think this is a mistake, you need to correct it quickly.
p.s. Sometimes with a young heart
If I tell you I’m dropping out, you know it’s going to be this hard for me, right?
Can you help me? You give me comfort, right? When you think about it and say you’re dropping out
There is also a friendship
No one will help you with that, so don’t complain anyway.
As it is, my withdrawal is confirmed in one fell swoop: