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promised my son
a PS5 if he got straight A’s and he did,
but
don’t want to give him a
What should | do?
Tanya Raman Senior in High School
Answered Nov 2021
My parents do this type of stuff My dad promises to buy Or do something for me and
then raises the bar as soon as it looks like
was going to make it Il then panic as the
bar seems tO be too high for me and whatever
am in the process Of doing will fail
Once
was straight As for
new phone and
really needed
new phone so
worked
for it but then my dad said everything had to be Over 95 and my Debate grade was on
the brink of killing my gpa
SO
etit
(dropped from
91 to an 80 over the course Of
just before the quarter ended
my dad was not happy) Thats the attitude
youll be fostering if you do this type of thing consistently You”ll be telling your kid
that they will never meet your expectations
Orif you dontraise the bar tO get out of it
and just say no that you’re inconsistent and won’t
your word
You’ve made the
promise and your kid followed through at this point all you can dois agree to give
him the PSs and set the bar
little higher for
reward that both of you think is fair (a
reward youll be expected to give by your son should he succeed again)
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I promised to buy 5 PlayStays for my son if he gets all A grades.
And my son got an all A on this exam:
But I really don’t want to give away a PS5 frame. What should I do?
Answer: My parents do this a lot. my father
They told me that if I achieved a certain goal, they would buy me something worth the original price or do something for me.
If I think I can achieve it, I immediately raise the bar for success.
Three sets. Well, I’m good at it because it seems so difficult to meet that standard.
I tried again and failed.
One time, if my father got an all-A (90 or more points in all subjects), he got a new cell phone.
He said he would buy me a job, and I really needed a new mobile phone.
I worked hard.
However, at the end of the semester, my father suddenly received a score of 95 or higher in all subjects.
Junol Olli Seok.
At that time, my debate class score was on the verge of falling below average.
I listen to what they say and just let my score go down (the semester is over).
The score dropped from 91 to 80 in the three days before the end.
My father doesn’t like that.)
If you keep not keeping your promises like that, your child will have that attitude.
It will turn into a frame.
When you say to your child, ‘You will never meet my expectations’
That’s what I’m saying.
If you don’t raise your standards and just say you don’t want to buy it
If so, your child will think that you are inconsistent and don’t keep your promises.
I will do it.
You made your promise and your child achieved his goal.
Please buy your child a PlayStation 5. And we raised the standard a little bit.
Promise to give some other reward that will satisfy both God and Son.
yo. this
pss
days;
keep