In Witcher 3, Cirilla not only kissed a man named Skaarl in return for protecting her when she was injured and showing affection for her.
Skaarl risks being treated as a ‘disgraced person who ran away from battle’ and dies while teaching Ciri an escape route.
This is the woman who later came to his grave and even shed tears.
For your information, Skaarl was considered a warrior tribesman but was slow and clumsy and looked down on him. Even though he was close to the image of what they call a ‘loser man’.
Siri rewarded him with kindness throughout.
You have to attract what you want, damn it