It’s my first time as a parent, so I sometimes ask myself if I’m doing a good job, but I think I’ve put a lot of thought into keeping some of the first resolutions I made after my eldest child was born, such as not forcing/not being obsessed/not burdening them.
I thought that a certain level of respect and equality was necessary because children are not the property of their parents, but rather are individuals with their own selves. So, no matter what happens, I put the child’s thoughts at the forefront and am always there to give advice or assistance. It looks like he was standing there.
Now, my eldest child will enter high school next year and the weight he has to shoulder in life will increase to a certain extent, so I am wary of my greed as a parent and tell him, as I have done so far, that the greatest value in life is satisfaction with one’s life and sincere effort. I’d like to.
One thing I would like to make to many people who are living in various difficult real-life problems is that I have realized that any difficulties will eventually be swept away by time, and that if you can endure that time, the depth of your inner self will also deepen, so I hope that you will not get tired and work hard together.
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