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(1)I took the bar exam in April this year, and now I’m working at a law firm
(2)I’ve only dated twice, and now I have to prepare for marriage, so from January after the exam to today, I’ve watched all episodes of the 1st to 15th solo episodes
(3)As a man in his early 30s who will soon reach the marriage age, I write about how I felt about love and marriage while watching ‘I am a solo’
(4)1 Not in the appearance spectrum that the other person likes
(5)It’s practically impossible to win an immune favor
(6)Everyone has an ideal type, but not everyone can meet an ideal typeThat is why most people have a spectrum of likable looks
(7)Those who fail to get into this spectrum are hard to be liked by reason at all costs No matter how good the job is, how rich you are, and how good your personality is, there is definitely an insurmountable wall of appearance This is usually the case when I get zero votes even though I have a good job salary personality in a solo
(8)”No, even if you don’t look good, there are times when you choose after introducing yourself.”
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(1)Even with this unexpected charm, you can actually feel a rational affinity for your appearance
(2)It’s possible because it’s at the end of the spectrum, and it’s within the spectrum of the opposite sex, but I just didn’t feel good at first because I’m far from my ideal type
(3)Criteria such as ‘women should be able to kiss no matter how much’ are typical examples of the existence of this spectrumMen are simple, so most of them just come into the spectrum if they look pretty and good Of course, the extent of the spectrum is the Sabbath of truth
(4)Having a job and getting a halo effect is also possible when you’re in the spectrum of appearance
(5)There weren’t surprisingly many dramatic moments of choice in my solo career
(6)Of these few dramatic moments, the 9th Kwang-soo may be the most representative example of a turnaround to a career, but women did not choose Kwang-soo only based on their jobs Even if you look at his job as a doctor, Kwang-soo is over 180cm tall and has a broad-minded appearance that is the style of Beomsaeng With this level of appearance, it can be within the appearance spectrum, which is liked by most women as a reason Now, it can be said that the sly personality and the halo effect of the job have maximized the charm and increased the favorability of the performers
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(1)Of course, if Kwangsoo wasn’t a doctor and he had nothing to do with his job
(2)I’m sure it was In terms of appearance alone, it is likely to be located at the end of the spectrum of women’s likable appearance
(3)Then, if you look good and have a good job, you will meet women well.” I will explain this part later in No. 3
(4)’Everything is relative’
(5)The 11th Young-chul or 15th Young-ho were chosen by many female performers because they were so heartwarming
(6)But it’s all relative, underlying these female cast members’ choices is the perception that it’s the best of these If Cha Eun-Woo came out in the same group
(7)I wouldn’t have been chosen that much
(8)I think that’s why soloists try to win love when they enter a solo country, because they have limited options of reason and start looking for decent people with relative comparisons
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(1)The problem is that in reality, the standard of “relative” is often endless because it does not limit these options. Especially, women in their 20s, who have good looks, often fall into the mire of “someone better than him will appear because they could meet if they wanted.” The longer they can’t get out of this mire, the longer marriage becomes far away If I can’t limit my options to myself, it’s a person’s psychology and instinct to find someone like Cha Eun-woo even if I meet someone who looks like Young-chul, the 11th solo
(2)The specifications required for marriage continue to be raised
(3)The aforementioned relative standards continue to be raised due to the presence of Instagram
(4)In the old days, it was difficult to form a comparative group because there were limited media to compare with others Maybe that’s why this person is a good personI used to get married when I did it But now, as I start comparing my friend’s or acquaintance’s lover and boyfriend on Instagram, I start to raise the standard of “relative” as mentioned above
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(1)The problem is that “I’m a solo” is quite a big role in raising these standards
(2)be at one’s wits’s service In reality, even if you graduate from a four-year university and go to a large company, you will be a person with the top five qualifications, but in “I’m a solo,” there are many responses that say, “If you’re not a top professional,” and as the standards of evaluation begin to apply to reality, more and more people are not understanding the so-called theme If you want to get married, it’s urgent to objectify yourself first
(3)5 Conclusion
(4)I would like to ask producer Nam Kyu Hong to level down the specifications of solo artists
(5)I hope you will no longer show the professional rich and outstanding appearance, but the people of the average group of Korea’s people struggling with love and marriage without any more
(6)It feels like it’s on the decline as the 10th generation peaked and people with high specifications started to come out
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