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(2)A friend who’s going to get married, a gold bag, and a bridal shower
(3)I demand it
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(6)Hello, I’m a woman in her late 20s
(7)I have a friend who is getting married at the end of this year, but it’s my first time getting married around, so I’m writing because I don’t know how to deal with it. I’ll call my friend A
(8)A and I have been friends since high school I have two more friends who hang out with me, and four of them are close friends who have been together for a long time The following are the conflicts caused by A’s marriage
(9)First, congratulatory money A brought up the congratulatory money story first You told your friends that you don’t know how much to coordinate the congratulatory money
(10)A has been saying that he can give at least 1 million won to his close friends when they get married But he wanted the same amount of money for us A has never paid a million won as a congratulatory money I’m the first one in the group
(11)Some of my friends are tight because they have a part-time job, and some of them don’t have enough money to save from their social life I don’t think we can each raise 1 million won, so we had a meeting together
(12)A didn’t give me a definite answer when I asked him how about giving me a small gift or cash that was partially supported by the expense by collecting an additional 200,000 won each because everyone was burdened The majority said yes, but it wasn’t positive
(13)The second one is Baeksoon I’m close to A, who is going to get married, and I know A’s family, so I decided to do Baeksoon at firstBut there’s a problem My joints and nerves have been bad for a long time ago Recently, this has gotten worse, so I go to orthopedics and oriental medicine clinics alternately whenever I have time If you have a bad joint or nervous system, you’ll know, but once it starts hurting, it’s a chronic disease, so it doesn’t get better It hurts a lot. Shoulders and arms
(14)So, Baeksoon told A to think that it would be hard to carry a luggage He said, “No, I can’t. There’s no one else to do it except you.” He said he didn’t have much luggage to carry because he had a locker
(15)It’s not that I don’t have anyone else who can do Baeksoon. I’m just the best In the end, Baeksoon decided to do it together because another friend B, who couldn’t stand A’s continuous request, would help
(16)The last one is a bridal shower Actually, I didn’t want to do it for you because of the previous events, and I don’t want to get it when I get marriedI thought a bridal shower wasn’t an essential part of a marriage, and I could do it if I wanted to, and I wouldn’t do it if other friends didn’t want to, and I said I’d invite them to do it
(17)But A brought up the bridal shower first, and you guys didn’t even bring it up and said it was too much, half joking and half serious, so I discussed it with my friends
(18)It takes about 2 hours to do it in a hotel or party room because it is expensive and far away in the countryside It’s burdensome. I looked it up and found that if A allows it, House A has recently remodeled, so if you decorate it with balloons or party supplies, it would be okay to take pictures and celebrate it. But we couldn’t take a bridal shower at another friend’s house
(19)So I don’t know if the luggage I took out while remodeling before A got married will be removed “Since we have a memorial that we have saved, why don’t we use that money for a day at a nearby pension?” I suggested that we use the public money that we collected to go on a trip
(20)A has time until he gets married, so let’s wait and see
(21)TEMPORARY HOLDED AWARD WITHOUT BRIDAL SHOWER PLANS DETERMINED
(22)It’s Tae
(23)After consulting with another friend, B, I found out how other people would feel in this situation
(24)I’m writing this because I’m curious and I want to refer to it if there’s a good way
(25)My friends are all burdened, and I’m stressed out because of things ahead of me
(26)I’m thinking about what to do with this Because it’s good
(27)Is there a way
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(1)Bepple oo 20230516 1231
(2)It’s better to slowly check the details of Gyebi’s bankbook and get ready to break it I don’t know if you can ask for a favor from Baeksun, but it’s too much for a marriage party to ask for. It’s not something you can ask them to give you
(3)Bepple oo 20230516 1249
(4)It’s obvious that you’re going to get everything and eat and run when it’s your turn, but don’t go to the wedding after settling the money. As a wedding preparation, the bride-to-be is not the best. I’m sure I’ll have to fill up the number of guests and take pictures
(5)1> Demanding excessive congratulatory money 2> Forcing Bagsoon to a sick friend 3> Bridal shower captain Gyebi did not save the friend for marriage, but it is money for the entire Gyewon You can turn down the bridal shower on your own After A, when another friend gets married, I’m busy and there are a lot of demands. If you’re upset, it’s right for him to quit. He’ll decide on a birth gift, an 100th day gift, a birthday gift, and force him to force him
(6)Beppleha 20230516 1403
(7)If you get your genealogy back and have a friend to marry, you can congratulate and congratulate on your own. If you get a baby later, you can’t do it There are cases where you say you don’t have money and you’re the oldest, but that friend is very likely to do that
(8)Bepple oo 202305161251
(9)Since we’re friends, I’m going to eat as much as I wantThe congratulatory money is 100,000 won, and Baeksoon said she would do it, so just do it and ignore your body to take a showerIf you get a call, you can buy a cheap tissue or a roll of paper
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