I want to fix my avoidance personality

(1)I want to fix my avoidance personality
(2)Inquiry 21115 Recommendation 43
(3)Comment 32. Write a comment
(4)As the title says, I’m an evasive person and I want to fix it
(5)If you argue with someone, you need to resolve the cause and improve the relationship
(6)If you talk to solve the problem, you’re afraid of fighting more or hurting more, so it’s hard to talk to make upThe one who fights the most is my mom, but once I argue with her, I don’t talk to her for 34 weeks for a long time, and she talked to me first at a ratio of 8:2
(7)Now that I think about why I’m an evasive type, I think I’m afraid of hearing bad things from others
(8)As mentioned above, in the process of talking to solve the problem of argument, you can listen to the other person’s suggestion and correct it, but for some reason, you get hurt
(9)I’ve never been scolded by my parents’ teachers because I had the image of a good boy since I was young, but I don’t know why I’m upset and depressed even if I think that I learned what I shouldn’t do when I got a job recently
(10)I envy someone who can talk to me the next day after a fight What kind of mindset should I have
(11)Beeplem 202201252107
(12)If I live with the mindset that I clean up the poop, I can fix it. If there’s a misunderstanding, I bump into it, solve it, and if I did something wrong, I’m an adult. It’s because I’m still immature to run away
(13)It’s because I have low self-esteem. If I feel like I’m more confident in myself and I don’t lack anything, I’ll be generous to others and solve problems confidently Look closely at what you want to hide and fill in, and solve that part first When I feel better, other problems are solved naturally
(14)Bepple Landscape Sound 20220125 2008
(15)The problem with dodgers is that they’re very passive When you grow up with little experience of purpose or output on your own, you don’t have enough initiative in solving problems, and you rely on someone to solve them, who’s been disciplined, raised, or intimidated from a young age to do something The reason why active people are better at self-objectification is that they experience a lot of variables and parameters intertwined between them, and they know that their intentions, their abilities, and the mechanisms of their work are separate tracks, but people who live weakly and passively and have little experience with themselves People like this live on their own, and when relationships or work fails, they start to get frustratedThese people’s characteristics are that even if they know it, they act on it. Their behavior is their ability, but they don’t learn at all So if you keep getting into trouble, you’ll try to avoid it, because you’re fighting your mom and avoiding her because you don’t have the skills to reconcile This is because the family itself is not reconciled and harmonized, so you can’t even learn it. Then you have to experience it often even if you go to your family. You have to live with people who are active