My boyfriend and I are 29 years old. We’ve been dating for 3 years
Let’s get married around next year after the 9th anniversary
That’s what my boyfriend said
We haven’t said hello to each other’s parents yet
My boyfriend says we should meet next spring
But I heard something shocking yesterday
I don’t know how to react
Her boyfriend’s mother gave birth to her at the age of 14 and 15
I think my boyfriend’s mother and father are 4 years apart
My mom said she’s in her early 40s
My father was surprised when he was in his late 40s
I saw your face a few times through pictures
You look young. That’s what I said
But the fact that you didn’t tell me until now
Now that we’re talking about marriage,
I’m flustered
I don’t feel bad or angry. It’s kind of uncomfortable
I don’t know. I feel like I got hit on the head
My mom and dad will be 60 next year
He’s a bit conservative
I don’t know how to say it
I’m having a mental breakdown, but I can’t judge the situation. What should I do?