This is the details of the incident. On December 24th, graduation day, I found the offender standing at the classroom door and quickly passed by, but what happened?
At first, the health teacher said that the bleeding had stopped a little and that he was not seriously injured, so I believed that and talked to the parents of the perpetrator for a while. When I asked them what they would do about the damage caused by not being able to go on a family trip, they responded that they could not take responsibility. During the conversation, they tried to convey the lies of the child, the perpetrator, to me in order to make the mistake of my child, the victim, but when they saw me about to explode, they just ignored it and moved on. Even though the perpetrator admitted his mistake that evening and saw the child lying injured, he did not take any action. I received a recorded apology saying that the reason I didn’t do it was because I was embarrassed.
I received an injury certificate from the dentist on the 24th, but the doctor stated that the permanent teeth were loose and the flesh in the mouth was cut was not serious. However, the plastic surgeon who went to suture the wound told me that the wound was too deep and severe after dressing it. The plastic surgery clinic is scheduled to issue a medical certificate this afternoon. I received treatment at the hospital on the 26th and am scheduled to visit the hospital again on the afternoon of the 29th.
Since I intentionally hurt a youth athlete who dreams of becoming a soccer player (everyone in the class already knows that he is a youth soccer player), I want him to be punished as harshly as possible so that he can never dream of doing something like this again. Even if he has no choice but to go to the same school, I want to make sure that he is not assigned to the same class, and I want to instill in him the awareness that my child, the victim, should never be touched even when other children criticize him.
The child was wearing glasses and, as a youth soccer player, if an injury occurred, the damage would be enormous. The perpetrator intentionally stepped on the child and has been harassing the child continuously since he transferred to the school in the second semester of the 5th grade. However, because the child was a girl and he did not want to bother the homeroom teacher, he never contacted the school, so there are no separate records, so I am very anxious that he will not be punished.
On the day the incident occurred, the vice-principal tried to instill guilt in my child, the victim, by saying that both sides must be at fault in the health room where my child was at fault, without even knowing about it. The person in charge of school violence showed a lukewarm attitude, saying that he had done his job without properly investigating or consulting with a higher-ranking person. In a phone call with the principal, he yelled at me about what the school did wrong and what responsibility it had, and blamed me, the victim’s mother, which added to my feelings of resentment.
The assailant (who was the tallest and biggest girl among the girls) had been constantly bullying me in small ways ever since she transferred to my school in the 5th grade, but I comforted her and told her to forget it, don’t take it to heart, it’s okay, I just endured it, etc. When I entered 6th grade, I wanted to call my homeroom teacher dozens of times, but I held back. There were many times when my child wanted to go back to school after a month because he told me that double-shaming was okay and that his homeroom teacher was not taking any action, but he said that he was fine on his own, that he didn’t want to embarrass the teacher, that his dream was to become a soccer player, and that he didn’t want to be involved in this, so I resigned myself and told him to endure it and endured the 6th grade.
I thought I would be okay if I held on like that. But I spend every day blaming myself because this happened to my child on his way to school on the morning of his graduation ceremony.
In this situation, is it okay for the offending student to go unpunished and should he be forgiven?
