Marriage concerns of a 35-year-old female civil servant

I am a 35-year-old civil servant woman.
It’s too long to explain, but I was appointed last year, so it’s been 1 year now.
The reason for this delay in employment is health issues.
As a result, I feel helpless and lack confidence in myself.
I don’t think I could go outside.
I feel like this part of myself is a flaw and I have no confidence.
I think that’s why I can’t even meet people.
I started dating when I was in college or in my early to mid 20s, and it was almost like a second time.
Second half narration-
As time passed, everyone settled down and saw their friends getting married.
I came to my senses, took the exam, and passed.
The problem is that there is no one around me because I am wandering, and my personality has changed a bit in the meantime.
In the end, I started to notice a lot and I wasn’t good at talking.
The only advantage I have is my height of 165~168 and my occupation.
Parents’ retirement (waiting)
(retirement age for industry martyr); Just a likable appearance.
In fact, maybe I was so unaware of reality that I only found a place in the top 35.
I thought there was a chance to rebound if I caught it.
It’s late, but I still thought there was enough opportunity.
Love and marriage. It’s okay and I vaguely think I’ll be able to meet someone decent.
I tried it, but the reality is not easy and it is always late to watch YouTube or Bulletin Board.
There is no such thing as a good man. I hear so much about this.

I feel impatient and feel like I’m too late or too jealous.
silver
I have a lot of feelings
Likewise, people who are decent will probably not prefer 35.
But at the same time, I feel like I’m going to get beat up too much.
I’m not too greedy, it’s okay if I don’t have a home, and we’re together.
There is lifting
However, I want to meet a man of similar age, good looks, and job.
But can I do that or should I put it down and see?

Begol
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2025.04.17 07.23
Please pass the negative comments. Let me know the real truth. I got married at 35.
I’m doing well. I’m not your age, but you got married at 35 in Korean age and you’re older than me.
There are many sisters who got married at the age of 36 or 37. I got married at the same age this year as well.
There are 3 meals. The first half of the meal is not bad, but two of them are men.
In the past, most people thought that if you couldn’t get married, you were in trouble, but these days,
There are many people who want to get married with a solid foundation and money to spare, so it is a good time to get married overall.
I’m writing this too late – there are a lot of people I’m distant from. Even my sister-in-law has been with me for 10 years.
I got married when I was 40, so don’t make fun of me by telling me I’m older.
Be sure to carefully consider the personality and personality of the other person’s family before getting married.
Something will happen, so don’t be impatient and act proactively.
cheer up

Begol
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2025.04.17 08.24
Daeguls are funny. As people turn 35, the number of my friends getting married decreases drastically.
Kyuk: I’m either getting married before 35 or not getting married.
The kids who can’t get married have high eyesight or average abilities, but they can’t do it because they’re too old.
It’s one of two things, but if you want to get married after 35, you have to be a man, have a man’s ability, be a man.
You have to give up one out of three things about your looks to get married easily. Of course, one or two people out of 10 will do it.
There are some people who aren’t like that, but most people are the same age.
If you give up your abilities or appearance if you are younger, or if your abilities decline, the age difference
I also have to consider marriage.
pros and cons
6oo
2025.04.16 23.14
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If you want to have good looks, a decent job, and the manly appearance of a 35-year-old man, you need to be in your 20s.
It’s hot to compete with women and win. They also look for men like that.
Shall I?