See!At the time, it was always like that.The first meeting between mom and dad took place in a confrontation.
Hello!Let’s do “Bul-ssi” (Bul-ssi.Yes, hello!Mr. Bom.About my dad… My mom’s…My first impression was…It’s a bit sloppy.0
That’s it.At my mom’s words…If you follow me, my dad at the time…He’s short and skinny. He’s like a skewer.Every weekend, I go to my hometown and help with farming.Because of that, it’s said that his face was tanned.I can’t find the exit whenever I leave the restaurant or home.We wandered around, we went somewhere, we went somewhere.They came in over there.Ee!Every time I put my hand in my pocket and take it out, I drop my coin.J
Oh, my.N
Oh, my.He said he didn’t want to see me that much.Whenever I smoke, I bend down and look for the cigarettes I put in my socks.Why?Come on.He’s like that.Why are you here?Mom!This person is not this person! Because we’re not going to meet.That’s how you know it!
Guys who are good at finding the exit at restaurants
They’re all girls who meet each other!
That person is
innocent. That’s right!
Grandma
Mom’s
Mom’s
He’s…I heard that people are saying they like me.My mom didn’t want to see my dad this much, but she said, “Oh my gosh.”My mom’s face.There’s no one like that.That’s what?Thanks to my grandmother’s persistent request,
the two of them make another appointment in a month and a half
Oh hong hong 오You’ll see me again.At that time,He even made an appointment through the matchmaker.We met twice and three times.Whenever they meet,
Mom and Dad are the most
.My favorite food was kalguksu. I went around to eat kalguksu. What my mom finds out is…It’s something in the distant future.While the meeting continued, the story of their marriage naturally came out, and both of them were old.You have to catch it.At that time, my dad was also in a situation where he was quite old.
Bubbles
23 years old
bank clerk
Spring
29 years old
bank clerk
One day, my dad…I’ll get permission to get married.La-lo.I took the weekend train and went down to my hometown,
Z.And a few days later,
Mom will meet
Ba…Grandfather → dad’s dad →Old dad. Old dad’s brother.VS
It was a big step toward Seoul with my future father, Si, who took a big step to Seoul.
My mom was nervous but she tried her best to look good.Hi!Do it!!Because you’re taking a long walk.It’s big!With Bom…It’s different.Gold…Here you go.o
It’s awkward to sit like that, but the way they look at their mom is
hahaha.Father.Hey, this is…It was so cold, they said.They didn’t say a word while looking at their mom.After I finished eating, I went back to my hometown.There was only one word that grandfather said to his dad.Z o’clock is not a girl, right?MMA
After that, my grandfather forced my dad to go down to his hometown every week and face a woman at
Z, and he’s struggling to persuade his grandfather.I did it!It was the same for my grandmother.
My mom feels like she’It’s gone bad.No, I mean…My daughter…What do you mean because you lack something?Beo.To you,
my daughter can’t give it to you.Let’s stop and see each other.That’s how my mom and dad broke up.
My mom said she wanted to see my dad again, but she couldn’t contact him again.My dad might run into my mom,
everyday on his way home from work, he went around the bank where my mom worked and left
This is also the fact that my mom finds out in the distant future.That’s what happened.Anyway, my dad went to his hometown every weekend and persistently persuaded his grandfather.Mom and dad miraculously met again and succeeded in making a wedding appointment.
Father!Starting with the wedding venue, the wedding ceremony, hanbok, and newlyweds, the opinions of the two families were not right, so they almost broke up several times.
But ^^That wasn’t the end of it.From Z o’clock to
.In Seoul,0
And their wedding was held in Seoul one day in January when heavy snow came after 100 years.It came true.0
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relatives who came up from the city of Z burst into discontent in the snowstorm.Why did you grab the “
” sign on a day like this?It’s cold. I’m going to die.That’s right?You should’ve done “
sik” at Z o’clock.0
The first holiday since marriage.My mom and dad took the express bus with a bunch of gifts, crossed the rice paddies and fields, and went down to their in-laws’ house.It’s not yet…A little more…No one welcomed unfamiliar Seoul girls warmly. It’s been a while.Is he here?Even my dad said he didn’t take care of my mom because he was drinking with relatives.(Laughs)My mother, who was a thorough outsider there, had to wipe away tears alone in the
Kitchen.
Especially my grandfather’s mom’s
Xia’s father is…Hahaha. That’s why I…(Laughs)TI
Even after I got married, I didn’t say a word to my mom.I hate my mom and grandfather. I’m scared of them.SE
The relationship between the two is getting closer 둘의He said he didn’t.My grandmother’s mother-in-law…But this was not
comforting at all.
Oh, my.Hey, hey, hey.Yes.You’re so annoying.My father-in-law…It’s not that I hate you.
It’s just 2 o’clock.As a daughter-in-law, I wanted to be a daughter-in-law.It’s just thatYou don’t have a bad feeling about me, so don’t be so sad
don’t think about me
A few years later, during the holidays, when my mom visited my in-laws,
What’s all this?In the kitchen, washed radish cabbage and…Boiled potatoes were piled up.
Mother –
this is all…Yes, it is.That’s it.It’s because my father-in-law in Seoul said he’d take it out.
Other
daughter-in-law
When you come, it’s not like that. When you come, it’s only like that.He’s especially taking care of me.My mom was a little surprised, but of course she was.These things can’t make you feel better.
Huh?Even after that, there was a custom that men and women don’t use together.Every time a daughter is born,Kicking my tongue or…Father.The second one is also…Wet.There were countless reasons why my mom hated my grandfather.
When farming, I order food for workers, but I order food for my daughters-in-law who worked with me.Or…I don’t have enough rice.What?Eventually, I shared it with my dad.But my mom said that she should do her duty and went to her in-laws’ house every harvest season to help with farming.Every holiday, I made ritual food by myself.
Hey.When I think about it now, my mom is so…I lament that I looked like a fool.
Only my mom, who is a Seoul woman,The daughters-in-law of
ZZ, whom grandfather loved so much, took a step.It’s been a long time since I quit.That was so much effort.Nevertheless, my grandfather…I didn’t say a word of thanks.
10 years and 20 years have passed like that.My mom still didn’t like my grandfather, but that year, she went down to help with farming without fail, and her body was a bit…Father.Father.I’m here!How many 몇N2
Eating…What my mom found on the floor that day was…Oh my god.I can’t hug you all in the middle of the nightIt was such a huge bunch of wild chrysanthemums.
The yellow wild chrysanthemum in full bloom.3. Dirty old 3It was jagged in newspaper.
My dad.This flower is
something.
ad
It’s your turn.You take it. It’s a dialect.A month later,
Grandpa died of lung cancer.No one knows what kind of thoughts he had while beating wild chrysanthemums one by one with an uncomfortable body.Grandfather’s awkwardly woven 할아버Nobody knows what wild chrysanthemum means.But
Mom said that…E
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I said reconciliation.
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My mom often tells my sister and I about her sorrow in-laws’ house.And that story always ends with a bunch of yellow wild chrysanthemums.The yellow wild chrysanthemum is shaking on the side of the road.Every time I see him,I know that my mom’s eyes are turning red.
Yan
catleaf113/01
this is a cartoon translation of my mom’s story, and I don’t think my grandfather is right
. If it were me, I wouldn’t have been able to forgive my grandfather easily. I wonder if it was that hard to say thank you and sorry.
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catleaf113/1. But my mom forgave my grandfather. Grandfather and mother have lived a pre-modern life, and their lives will be somewhat difficult for us to understand as we live in modern times. My mom always tells me and my sister not to live like her.
I wanted to draw the hard life of
catleaf113 and the forgiveness and reconciliation within it. The mother’s feelings for her grandmother and father are still complicated, but I don’t think we need to understand this pre-modern life. I’d appreciate it if you could just think that I had this kind of life.
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